My Experiments in the Practice of Everyday Life

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Monthly Archives: April 2007



The importance of knowing what you LIKE to do, and then doing it.

A thoughtful reader emailed me a link to a recent Time article, Getting Serious About Happiness. It’s about Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, an expert on happiness and “flow.” His book Flow: The Pyschology of Optimal Experience is fascinating. What interested me most was the following advice by Csikszentmihalyi: Be attuned to what gives you genuine satisfaction. Although many people assume that popular …


Trying out the networking concept of the “phone date.”

My friend Marci is a brilliant networker. She’s constantly meeting people and, what’s more, taking the time to make useful introductions for other people. Her new book One Person/Multiple Careers just came out, so she’s been working especially hard lately. I’m not a natural networker, just the opposite, so I study Marci to see if I can figure out how …


Seven tips for making yourself happier IN THE NEXT HOUR.

Every Wednesday is Tip Day. This Wednesday: Seven tips for making yourself happier in the next hour. You can make yourself happier – and this doesn’t have to be a long-term ambition. You can start right now. In the next hour, check off as many of the following items as possible. Each of these accomplishments will lift your mood, as …


What does it mean “not to be happy”?

Last Wednesday’s post, Tips for how NOT to be happy, provoked a lot of controversy. I think one major reason was the question: what does it mean for a person “not to be happy”? Many people understood this to mean a person who is “depressed.” Which is not what I intended. I spend most of my time thinking about happiness, …


As promised from last week, I tackle the question: “what is happiness?”

One of the trickiest questions in the happiness project is: “What is ‘happiness’?” Scientific texts use various terms, such as utility, hedonic tone, subjective well-being, positive emotionality, and positive affect. One study identified 15 different academic definitions of “happiness.” Several kinds of tests measure various concepts of “happiness.” Some studies focus on “life satisfaction,” by asking people how satisfied they …